NYC / NJ / Hudson Valley

Wedding DJ work for music nerds.

Matthew Reate at the DJ booth

I'm Matthew — a record collector who DJs weddings in New York, New Jersey, and the Hudson Valley. About forty-five a year, from intimate dinner rooms to floors past two hundred.

What it sounds like

Cocktail Hour

First pours, warm records, the room waking up.

Dinner

Dinner music that keeps the room alive.

Dance

Where the floor opens up.

Latest Gig

Alison & Reed at The Hotel Chelsea

The Hotel Chelsea · New York, NY · Saturday, April 18th, 2026

West Coast invasion in the most quintessential NYC hotel. Behind-the-bar ceremony position, a column in the sightline, Reed's live Blackbird through a DI box, and a singalong crowd that held the floor from Golden to the Friends theme.

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All Notes Gigs Mixes

Alison & Reed at The Hotel Chelsea

West Coast invasion in the most quintessential NYC hotel. Behind-the-bar ceremony position, a column in the sightline, Reed's live Blackbird through a DI box, and a singalong crowd that held the floor from Golden to the Friends theme.

Room: The Hotel Chelsea · Full wedding reception · New York, NY

Open Funk Format

An open-format funk mix for restaurant gigs, lounges, and rooms where nobody asked for a playlist but everybody notices the music.

48:22 / Open format funk

Danny & Chantal at Wythe Hotel

A Williamsburg hotel wedding where the venue speakers weren't going to cut it, the couple was extremely chill, dinner was in a candlelit cellar, no mic needed, and the entire room — family included — raged through the full length of All My Friends.

Room: Wythe Hotel · Full wedding reception · Brooklyn, NY

Rare Groove Records That Work in Real Rooms

Collector records that still work on people. Not the ones that sound good at home on headphones. The ones that move a room full of strangers who've never heard them before.

Key records: Roy Ayers, Idris Muhammad, Lonnie Liston Smith, Donald Byrd

What Makes a Wedding Dance Floor Actually Work

How a floor starts trusting itself. It's not about the first big song. It's about the three songs before it that gave people permission to move.

Crowded wedding dance floor during a limbo moment Dance floor, mid-turn

Record Collector Cocktail Hour

Bossa nova, soul, rare groove, and a few left turns. The kind of cocktail hour set where someone asks "what is this?" three times.

48:22 / Recorded live, Feb 2026

Why Dinner Music Is the Hardest DJ Set

Dinner has to keep the room alive without competing with conversation. Too quiet and the energy dies. Too loud and the room fights you. The set has to breathe on its own.

Why Cocktail Hour Should Never Feel Like Background Music

Cocktail hour sets the room's first temperature. The Meters into Say She She into Idris Muhammad. First hour. First signals. The room is learning what kind of night this is.

Artists: The Meters, Say She She, Prince, Idris Muhammad, Peter Cat Recording Co., Feist, Marvin Gaye

Vendor Cocktail Hour at Brooklyn Winery

A smaller vendor room at Brooklyn Winery. Vintage-leaning selections, live audio, and the kind of groove adjustments that only show up once the room starts talking back.

DJ setup at Brooklyn Winery with turntable and buffet in view Brooklyn Winery, Jan 2026
Room: 40 people, cocktail format, vendor appreciation night

Wedding at Englewood Field Club

A split-location North Jersey wedding. Park ceremony, a Dennis Edwards dinner pivot that won over the old heads, and the last 45 minutes opened into millennial hip-hop, Gasolina, and a very clean late-night lane.

Room: Englewood Field Club · Ceremony through dance floor · Englewood, NJ
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